| Monday, April 30 |
| When is Envy Okay? |
When tears filled their eyes, a lump formed in my throat. I had known them as teenagers when I moved to Dixie after my marriage to Hubby in 1975. We had watched each family gave birth to children who grew. Although our families were only acquaintances, we kept up with the other's doings and comings and goings.
Hubby and I were thanked repeatedly for coming to 'pay our last respects' to their dad. (Funny phrase - pay our last respects - I will have to research the origin of that for a later post.) Hugs abounded and questions about our children, their children, and so forth began to spill over as did the tears from the guys' eyes.
I just couldn't think of anything to say except what blurted out next. "I'm so envious of your Dad today." Both - smiled! And the tears were gone! (And my lump in the throat disappeared so I could actually breathe again.)
Dad was a very studious, conscientious Christian and all I could think about was how he was in the presence of GOD. He actually was witnessing, soaking up, the GLORY of GOD! And so I was envious because I couldn't be there right now as well.
The guys continued to smile and then began round two of expressions of gratitude - only this time for putting things into "perspective" for them. Their words of "Daddy isn't using his cane now." and "He's finally getting the rest he's so fondly requested for so long." cause me to contemplate about my envy as they echo in my mind.
Perhaps I was there 'for such a time as this' to let me know to use my 'envy' in a good way. As I looked into the peaceful resting face of where Dad used to occupy while serving here on earth, I whispered "thank you!" It was a multi-faceted utterance of appreciation: for being a friend who kept in touch; for training his children to see after their mother, love their wives and children, and to love the LORD GOD with all their hearts, minds, souls; for setting an example of how to grow old gracefully and with dignity in the LORD even with multiple handicaps; for walking with me and Hubby down the straight and narrow for those few years while he (Dad) was still here on earth encouraging us in word and deed. Thank you for remaining a Saint!Labels: personal |
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| NEW BLOG ADDITION |
For those who wish, check out my additional blog spot at Mimomma's Lemonade Stand !
Our local evangelist, PB, challenged us to use every available means and media to evangelize the world back in August 2006. That is when I first opened this blog spot and announced to him that I thought his challenge was a marvelous method of assisting families with young ones to have materials and activities they could use when teaching their children. At that time, I promised to have 'something' in place in about 45-60 days.
Well, it's been longer than that, but I have maintained a careful watch on several websites, or rather blogs, researching 'how' to do this and 'what' to present. I have spent alot of time looking over and trying to make contact with several of you bloggers to see if there was any interest for such a blog as this. Eventually I concluded that with little response from blogger cyberspace. the devil must be putting up a stumbling block to keep me from professing GOD and glorifying HIS name while sharing from my limited 26+ years of teaching experiences with younger women of faith, homemakers, and even community-based teachers.
SO here I am - fearful of falling down, so to speak, but excited that I once again can be a part of the profession (virtually, of course) I dearly love and the one that GOD chose for the WORD to become as HE exclaimed the mighty and wondrous GLORY of GOD - the teaching profession! I'm NOT the master teacher (although I have diplomas, accolades, kudos, and various 'official' papers stating such); only my elder Brother has that distinction. So my intent with Mimomma's Lemonade Stand is to show simple lesson plans that homeschoolers, private, and public teachers can use to teach basic skills while instilling nuggets from GOD's HOLY WRIT into the hearts of their young ones.
If there is any subject/curriculum you would like to ask for, I can find something, somewhere out there in cyberspace to help you in the event I cannot put my hands on something I currently own or have used in tutoring/classroom settings. Just drop me an email - I'll be glad to assist in whatever way I can!
I also welcome criticisms and corrections of any kind...through trial-and-error I often grow!Labels: Bible Nuggets, introducing, Pearls, personal |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/30/2007 12:09:00 AM |
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| Saturday, April 28 |
| Saturday Snickers |
 While living in the Garden of Eden, Eve is the only woman who could ever exclaim, "I haven't a thing to wear" and be truthful! Labels: Saturday Snickers |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/28/2007 09:29:00 PM |
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| Friday, April 27 |
| Snobs, Snubs, and Snippets |
 As a child, I participated in a game that was a catch-22, so to speak, called Rock, Scissors, and Paper. As an adult, I think I've been just as futile with some relationships as when a child playing RSP. Only, now I call it Snobs, Snubs, and Snippets. The only good part of my adult version is that snippets almost always give me a taste of and longing for heaven! This week I've been on the receiving end of all three parts of SSS and I don't like how the first two sections made me feel. My intent is to eradicate my personal use of the snobbery and snubbing and make my little corner of this earth a nicer place to be. Perhaps I will even convince someone that like I know I am s/he is just a pilgrim passing through to an eternal HOME. I include a couple of definitions before revealing my little 'tastes of heaven' in the snippet portion of this post. If you have been guilty of either of these, take the time as I have to repent and ask each you have offended for forgiveness. After doing such personally, my burdens of self-seeking gratification and promotion (PRIDE) have been taken away. Through much prayer from now on, I desire that GOD be the hub of my life and strengthen me against such foolishness. I hope you will, too. snobs - one who blatantly imitates, fawningly admires, or vulgarly seeks association with those regarded as social superiors; one who tends to rebuff, avoid, or ignore those regarded as inferior; one who has an offensive air of superiority in matters of knowledge or taste snubs - probably of Scandinavian origin; akin to Old Norse snubba to scold, Swedish dialect snubba to reproach, cut off (interestingly enough, my family has Norwegian roots!) to check or stop with a cutting retort; to restrain the action of; to treat with contempt or neglect 4 : to extinguish by stubbing snippets - a small part, piece, or thing Snippets from HOME Sunday began a week long feast for my soul's health. I have 'gained' by being at each meeting time. Such a spiritual smorgasboard on how GOD will cause the 'grass around home' to be greener can be accessed in previous postings. Monday through Wednesday I spent online with a favorite niece admonishing to remember Who she is by defending our LORD's eternal purpose through her blogsite. Seems her 'friend' is a wee bit confused with his priorities in life. Thursday and today have been dedicated to remembering and celebrating the births of two VIPs in my life - my youngest granddaughter turned 1 yesterday and today is my brother's 50th! Time on earth is so fleeting - just a vapor! James 4:14 Labels: weekend reflection |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/27/2007 09:05:00 AM |
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| I'm Lovin'This Man |
This post is very personal because it's not my husband I'm talking about! (Usually my finial post to cap off my week is not something about me - it's something I've been given to read by someone else. But confession is good for the soul - so here goes!) You see, this Friday's Finial is about a man I've known since I was two. We watched each other grow, went to school together (even had a few classes with one another). As we went to church together and learned GOD's will for us, we became siblings in Christ's family - together. We grew up best friends and then went on to college. We married, had and shared our children, and grieved through a divorce. And still I love this man - for over 50 years now! A little over 5 years ago, though, the first love of my life left our LORD. This single act nearly broke my heart, but I never, NEVER, forgot to pray for the ti me and opportunity to present itself whereby he could call on the FATHER, receive forgiveness, and return to the family as a child of THE KING of kings. Recently, he did just that. And, after crying over the much anticipated phone call, I called upon GOD in thanksgiving for hearing my prayers once again. So why am I professing my love again for this man? Because today is a milestone in my life - outside of my Mom and my Daddy, I've loved him longer than anyone else. I've loved him unconditionally for 50 years! Quite a feat for me! And I write to you about him because he is the most thoughtful and kind man I know...and today is his 50th birthday and I cannot be there to hug and thank him for loving me. He's seen me at my worst behaved....and still loved me. He's been there at the birth of my children and praised GOD for blessing me. He's helped me triumph over trials and stumbling blocks on my journey HOME by picking me up - carrying me when necessary - and dusted me off promising that it would all pass one day. And he was correct. He's treated me with respect and dignity And to this day he still calls once a week to see how I'm doing and what's important in my life that week. I may not be there today as others gather for your birthday, David, but I'm there in spirit. I miss you deeply and still pray for you fervently. I know that you've been there for me, but I want you to know I'm ALWAYS here for you. Whatever I have to do to get where you are, all you have to whisper is "Come" and I'll be right beside you - physically. You see, there was a very popular song as we were growing up that we used to sing that sums up how I feel about you......... He ain't heavy; he's my Brother! Many best wishes and love are sent to you, to celebrate your 50th birthday and the single longest milestone of my life - loving you. I will love you always.  Labels: friday favorites, Friday's Finial, personal |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/27/2007 12:05:00 AM |
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| Thursday, April 26 |
| Thankful Thursday |
Today is Ansley's Big One year-old birthday. My "Baby Ruth" is the youngest of my three already-here granddaughters (next one due any day now). As I have listened to wonderful lessons from GOD's WORD each evening this week, my Thankful Thursday post this week is a no-brainer for two reasons. I'm thankful to have several copies of THE MANUAL which instructs how to raise children who believe - Thank YOU, HEAVENLY FATHER. And I'm thankful that I have healthy and loving children and grandchildren - I presently have my quiver full and any day now it will overflow! Thank YOU, KIND CREATOR, for my offspring. May they ALL continue to ask, seek, and knock!Labels: Pearls, thankful thursday |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/26/2007 05:48:00 PM |
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| Sunday, April 22 |
| Food for Thought |
Are you B.U.S.Y.?
Bound
Under
Satan's
Yoke
I hope not!!
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| posted by Marsha @ 4/22/2007 07:25:00 PM |
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| Our Heavenly Father |
Our Heavenly Father
God is the father of all mankind (Malachi 2:10; Acts 17:28).
But God is a Father to some in a special sense: "But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name: who were born, not of blood, nor of the will of man, but of God" (John 1:12-13; NKJV).
Everyone is created in His image (Genesis 1:26-27). To become a spiritual child of God is a choice! God has given everyone the right, the authority, the opportunity through His Son Jesus to believe, to be born again of God (John 3:5; Galatians 3:26-27). When a person believes and is baptized (Mark 16:16), that person is adopted into the family of God (Galatians 4:5). God becomes that person's heavenly Father.
In the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus referred to our heavenly Father as "Abba, Father" (Mark 14:36). "Abba" is of Aramaic origin. Vine says the word was "framed on the lips of infants," and speaks of trust. Jewish children referred to their fathers as "papa," or "abba." Today in the deep South children refer to their fathers as "daddy." The term "father" expresses an intelligent apprehension of the relationship. The two together (Abba, Father) express the love and intelligent confidence of a child.
The Jews never referred to Jehovah with such intimacy. In a culture that wouldn't even speak God's name, calling Yahweh "Abba" was nearly blasphemy. The Jews sought to kill Jesus in John 5:18 because He said "God was His Father." In Gethsemane, Jesus shows us it is okay to think of God in such terms--to use such terms when we address Him. Yes He is God. Yes He is to be revered as a "Father." But He is also our "Abba," the One who longs to draw near to us as a Father draws near a child.
Those who are "in Christ" (Galatians 3:26-27) have an "Abba, Father" relationship with God!"
And because you are sons, God has sent forth the Spirit of His Son into your hearts, crying out, 'Abba, Father!'" (Galatians 4:6; NKJV)
"For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, 'Abba, Father.'" (Romans 8:15; NKJV)
The Abba relationship symbolizes the new relationship Jesus made possible through His death, burial and resurrection!
The Abba Relationship From the Father's Perspective:
Mercy, compassion, love!
Personal interest and genuine concern!
Willingness to provide!
Readiness to protect!
Too often we focus on our mistakes. Like Adam and Eve, we hide from God instead of going to God. We forget how much we matter to God. We wonder if he really wants to hear from us. We must remember in our moments of doubt our favored position in His family! Because of Jesus, we have direct access to God, our "Abba, Father!" He is interested in our prayers. The children of God do not have to grovel, groan, bug or beg. He is our Father. We are His children. We have His heart and His ear. He cares about the big things. He cares about the little things. In fact, in this Abba relationship, there are no little things! Everything in my life matters to my "Abba, Father" (see the book of Ecclesiastes). My heavenly Father calls me to pray always (1 Thessalonians 5:17) because He wants to hear from me, His child!
The Abba Relationship From the Father's Perspective:
Implicit willingness to love, honor, and respect the Father!
Awareness of dependency on the Father!
Confidence that one has in their Father!
Readiness to obey one's Father!
God, our "Abba, Father," is able to respond. Creation wasn't a problem. Stilling a storm wasn't a problem. Resurrecting Jesus wasn't a problem. Your problem is not too big for God to handle!The word "Abba," as it was used by the Lord Jesus and the Holy Spirit, signifies the essence of what it means to have a personal relationship with God.
Conclusion: True Spirituality!
How are you spiritually?
Do these words describe your relationship with God?
Abba,
Father
Intimacy
Closeness
Nearness
Awareness
Adoption
Safety
Security
Tenderness
Warmness
Dependence
Presence
Communion
Fellowship
Oneness
Relationship
If not, I've got good news for you - they can!
Christ - Centered Homes
Homes Built on the Rock
Better Built Homes
Foundations
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| posted by Marsha @ 4/22/2007 02:42:00 PM |
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| Reading the Bible in A Year |
This week's readings include:
April 23
1 Samuel 23, 1 Corinthians 7, Psalms 31 and 54 April 24
1 Samuel 24, 1 Chronicles 8, 1 Corinthians 8, Psalms 57-58 April 25
1 Samuel 25-26, 1 Corinthians 9, Psalm 63 April 26
1 Samuel 27, 1 Chronicles 9, 1 Corinthians 10, Psalm 141 April 27
1 Samuel 28-30, 1 Corinthians 11, Psalm 109 ***Each scripture is linked to online access for New American Standard Version powered by:
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| posted by Marsha @ 4/22/2007 12:59:00 PM |
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Mary, Mary, Quite Contrary:
Springs of Life |
Ah! I remember Thursday now - my nearly all day long appointments at UAB. (I see Dr. Ray Watts, leading North American neurologist and god-fearing physician for Parkinson's Disease.) While there I participated in a one-time study with the Cardiographics Team on the effects of Permax and Requip on my heart valves. The test, an echo cardiogram, was totally cool! My little Brazilian-born, naturalized American citizen technician (I did get some "Come-and-See teaching in), walked and talked me through the whole procedure. Totally FASCINATING!
After which I thought about how 'fascinating' - completely AWESOME it is that we have a GOD WHO does this sort of procedure on a nanosecond schedule with our soul's heart. HE has cautioned us in many inspired writings that whatever we put into our heart will be revealed in our actions and speech ( Matthew 12:34; Matthew 15:18; Matthew 15:19; Mark 7:21; Luke 6:45) Just exactly like our fleshly heart pump, our spiritual heart needs good nutrition to function at the level of eternal health GOD favorably monitors.
My favorite passage, though, has to be Solomon's writings from Proverbs 4:22-23 where he says:
22For they are life to those who find them
And health to all their body.
23Watch over your heart with all diligence,
For from it flow the springs of life.
What a beautiful (or tragic) picture that conjures up on my eternal echo cardiogram! SO, like Mary, Mary, quite contrary, I must learn to ask daily, "How does my garden grow? Am I providing my heart with its necessary nutrients and drinking deeply from GOD's wellsprings with all diligence?" I sure do want my garden to be the best one in my mansion reserved in heaven!
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| posted by Marsha @ 4/22/2007 06:26:00 AM |
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| Saturday, April 21 |
| Weekend Reflection |
 I'm going to try to do WR, too, but please be mindful and my meds make me mindless!
Sunday was a shocking start to a wonderful week as my Ebenezer returned to Dixie to further her USAF training. Made me feel 'homesick' for the banks of the Wabash as well as for Heaven! Monday was spent catching up hubby's books at the new shop. While there (a retail specialty firearms shop) the news began to pour in about the V-Tech killings. At home, I readied the house for Ladies Class at my home.
I taught the Ladies BIble Class on Tuesday a.m. in my home. We studied how to overcome disappointment and frustration - personally a much needed lesson. Lesson powerpoint presentation can be accessed by clicking here. That evening I recieved a call from by best little Vallie-Girl. She was reminding me that she's coming to Dixie soon for an extended visit.
I crashed Wednesday - rested mostly and worked on quilts. (I'm a textile artist of sorts, Thanks Grandma Eva!)
Having trouble remembering Thursday- I did "GO" and invite others to "Come and See."
Friday began with Bible Reading Class and ended with a much anticipated phone call from my beloved physical brother about his return to the Great SHEPHERD's fold. Thank YOU, LORD, that YOU hear my little prayers. YOUR loving kindness endures forever! Cameron came in late to spend the weekend with Hubby and me (Air National Guard weekend.)
Saturday was spent doing for others - two quilts cut and one top fully pieced together, ceramic houses glazed, photo albums covered, caught up some websites.
No wonder I'm soooo tired, but it's a good feeling. Tomorrow, our LORD's day I look forward to meeting with other saints and renewing my covenant with my SAVIOR. Also, I can hardly wait to GO-AND-SEE...the fields are white with harvest. LORD bless our spiritual family's efforts over the last several weeks preparing for the spiritual feasts of this upcoming week!Labels: Church Family, Pearls, personal, weekend reflection |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/21/2007 09:20:00 PM |
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| Friday, April 20 |
| Friday's Finial - Bible Smiles |
Friday's Finial is a little bit of humor this week from my Momma. Scroll down to see the Bible Smiles answer to each riddle. Enjoy this post and GOD bless your weekend! Q. What kind of man was Boaz before he married Ruth?  Q. What do they call pastors in Germany? Q. Who was the greatest financier in the Bible? Q. Who was the greatest female financier in the Bible? Q. What kind of motor vehicles are in the Bible? Q. Who was the greatest comedian in the Bible? Q. What excuse did Adam give to his children as to why he no longer lived in Eden? Q. Which servant of God was the most flagrant lawbreaker in the Bible? Q. Which area of Palestine was especially wealthy? Q. Who is the greatest babysitter mentioned in the Bible? Q. Which Bible character had no parents? Q. Why didn't they play cards on the Ark? PS. Did you know it's a sin for a woman to make coffee?  Labels: Friday's Finial, Pearls |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/20/2007 11:20:00 PM |
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| Friday Favorites |
| My Friday Favorite - My favorite smell is safeguard soap - reminds me of the day I brought newborn Trae home from the hospital. That was 27 years ago - and all the precious memories come back as clear as if they happened yesterday when I get a whiff of it. I still buy Safeguard for the bathrooms! Labels: friday favorites |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/20/2007 11:01:00 PM |
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| Thursday, April 19 |
| Thankful Thursday |
I am thankful for my Mother-in-Law Betty D. She's been the "Naomi" in my life since March 21, 1975. Today, my Naomi frove me to my UAB Neurological and Cardiographic appointments - with a smile on her heart and encouragement adorning her lips. She's at an age where I should be caring for her - very blessed she is to have such great health! Yet, she tenderly and carefully tends to my physical needs and spiritual endeavors just like Naomi did for Ruth in the Old Testament. Thank you, Betty D! You are appreciated MORE than you'll ever know! Agape, Labels: Church Family, Pearls, thankful thursday |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/19/2007 09:45:00 PM |
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| Today is my semi-annual specialist exam at UAB Dept. of Neurology. I really love to go see Dr. Ray Watts! Today, however, after reviewing my health status with nurse practitioner Stephanie Guthrie, I will be sent to the university's Dept. of Cardiology for further evals on heart-related symptoms that are aggravated by Permax and Mirapex - meds I've used in the past to control Parkinson's systematic tremors. Seems that the USDA has determined these two culprits cause valve deterioration and leakage. While I believe that the tests will all come back negative (faith as a mustard seed?) please keep me in your thoughts and prayers that whatever the outcome, GOD will be glorified through my actions, words, and decisions. THANX! Labels: personal, prayer requests |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/19/2007 05:44:00 AM |
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| Wednesday, April 18 |
| No Languor Know - For Betty |
For Betty B-
These words now have even more precious meaning than before - I hope they do for you, too!
Rock of Ages
Rock of ages, cleft for me,
Let me hide myself in thee;
Let the water and the blood,
From thy wounded side which flowed,
Be of sin the double cure,
Save from wrath and make me pure.
Could my tears for ever flow,
Could my zeal no languor know.
These for sin can not atone;
Thou must save and thou alone:
In my hand no price I bring,
Simply to thy cross I cling.
While I draw this fleeting breath,
When my eyes shall close in death,
When I rise to worlds unknown,
And behold thee on thy throne,
Rock of ages, cleft for me,
Let me hide myself in thee.
Music by Thomas Hastings
with lyrics by Augustus Toplady 1776, 1832Labels: Church Family |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/18/2007 11:59:00 PM |
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| Weapons of Choice |
***PLEASE NOTE: Following comments are solely my views and not intended to be insensitive to any of the families who lost precious ones at Virginia Tech. My sympathy is extended to them and prayers are offered to I AM for comfort and understanding, peace and rest.***
My Hubby is a retail gun store owner and instructor for risk management in our little town. He does a modest retail business selling guns of all sorts along with specialty firearms items. Hubby is recognized by the NRA and local officials as a licensed trainer for handling of weapons and use of deadly force. He maintains an impeccable profile as a fair businessman and as well as a Christian husband, father, and grandfather.
This weekend I attended his Ladies Only class out at the range because I needed to brush up on my accuracy skills - only left-handed since PD pretty much controls my 'shooting hand.' During the course of the 6 hour class, he and his training partner emphasized the OAT plan for use of deadly force again a would-be attacker.
My shock turned early on to amazement about the V-Tech 'massacre' because many are bringing up the gun control issues again. (Second Amendment wording here.) Our Constitution allows for the people to keep and bear arms. Generally, we equate 'arms' with 'weapons' and usually, we tend to think that weapons or arms pertain only to firearms - guns.
So what are weapons or arms? I contend that weapons are any tool which someone uses to offend or defend - a tool used to injure, destroy, or defeat OR to counteract the effects of onslaught of injury, destruction, or defeat. With that said, a weapon is anything I can use to defend myself and my brood from senseless acts of physical or spiritual violence. Furthermore, my weapon of choice, a lifeless object, cannot accomplish its purpose unless I exercise my right as stated in our Constitution and use it.
Interestingly enough, one defensive weapon used during the V-Tech killings was a table. Yep, a table! (see my previous post about our Ice Cream Table.) A group of students in one rclassoom heard the commotion, weighed their options, and actively chose to defend life and limb by positioning a common classroom table against the door as a fortification, a tool for defensive posture, a 'weapon' against the approaching assailant. (One could make the argument that they used their 'wits' as a defensive weapon. The collective participated in the deflecting of bodily injury or destruction.)
Consequently, my reflection about the whole situation is that we as a nation fail when teaching our children to prepare for and prevent "V-Tech" type situations before they arise. So many people find it easier to scream, "Gun control" than to take time to set up scenarios with their children and ask/instruct tthem on what should be done in the event we find ourselves in that predicament. Makes me wonder how many of those students and professors died needlessly because the "Todd Beamers" were not equipped to take a stand on Monday.
Eventually, my thoughts turned to biblical references of what GOD has preserved in writing about defense of our families as well as for our souls. GOD instructs us to actively provide for and defend our families, especially of the household of faith or we are considered worse than an unbeliever. (1 Tim. 5:8) I believe HE means that we are to protect, nurture, and defend in ALL areas!
Additionally, LORD GOD has listed HIS weapons of choice to fight off the fiery darts of the evil one. Why would HE be so specific if HE did not intend for us to defend ourselves spiritually?
Eph 6:14-18
Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
14Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;
15And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;
16Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.
17And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:
18Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints;
As the nation mourns this senseless act, let us consider and prepare our youth and ourselves for the physical and spiritual defense! Remember - our weapon of choice could be as simple as a table or as intrinsic as our faith.... What's your weapon of choice?Labels: Challenges, Children, Husband, Pearls |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/18/2007 09:49:00 PM |
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Yep, it's that little round table! I received it 30 years ago as a premium for buying something (can't remember now what I purchased now) before my children were born. My Hubby remarked that it just wasn't me - I was into Americana and primitive furniture styles when we were first married.
I kept the little table anyway. We used to put our odd change in the tiny little drawer after work each day. As we had our children, they grew and went to elementary school. As luck would have it, all three of my younguns were excellent math students - except for the making of change.
So, I decided that the little table with the change drawer would be for the kids to get out the monies necessary for the Ice Cream Man who frequented the neighborhood each hot summer afternoon. The catch was that each child had to count out his/her change before going to the curb to place their individual orders. Soon they were able to count the change like financiers!
I took it a step further - when at a store I'd purposefully have 'bills' to give to the cashier when the kids were with me. IF they could tell me the change I'd receive back from the overage of a purchase, they could have it. (An item costs $3.78 with tax, I give the cashier a five dollar bill, and whoever could tell me $1.22 cents was the change would receive their portion of the overage!) The catch was they had to express the amount before the cashier would tell me the total and hand back the change.
Recently, I went to take the little table to the flea market booth I manage in my spare time. When my middle son caught wind of my aim, he requested, "Please hang onto the Ice Cream Table for me. When I get settled into a house, I'd love to have it for the fond memories it holds for me. I'd love for my kids to learn the lessons I learned from the Ice Cream Table." Little did I know that my children had dubbed the thing, our ice cream table!
When Cameron's brother and sister saw the ice cream table again (on separate occasions), each asked for it. They both have children; to date, Cameron does not. I have explained my reasoning for saving the little table for him. But, until then, my granddaughters will be able to experience the lessons of the Ice Cream Table this summer. (Two of them start kindergarten this fall.) And the little table now has new life as it is adorned with pictures of those who will give it new purpose!
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| posted by Marsha @ 4/18/2007 09:01:00 PM |
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| K-E-double-L-O-double-good! |
Used to love that commercial - don't hear so much any more!
My day was a "Kellogg's" day! Only when my Savior says, "well done - welcome home" can it get any better. I can only touch on the highlights as some of it will be used ADAS.
At 2 a.m.,I began time alone with the FATHER on behalf of one of the sweetest (sick :-() girls I know. Mom's endure so much - we're on a seemingly never ending roller coaster ride. (Personally, I hate roller coasters - makes me start "pooking" like my little sick friend.) So my petitions were on Mommy's and Daddy's behalves as well. Time well spent - I like my private conversations, and public 'shorties', too!
While praying I prepared a PowerPoint to enhance my presentation for Ladies' Class in my home. (I delight in spending time teaching - but preparation tires me so due to PD that I must limit that active participation to 'special occasions.) We're studying Heart Disease and Their Cure by Henry Winkler. Great book! I supplemented with another terrific book Checklist for Life for Women compiled and edited by Lila Empson and Candi Paull. I had such fun! (I really enjoyed my role as Martha - see previous post where I confess my weakness as Martha the sister of Lazarus.) The lesson was Overcoming Discouragement and Frustration - more helpful to me than to my 'students' probably.
My assignment to class members was to write about someone who had been a blessing to them...I received the sweetest blessings written about me! I will treasure that paper and place it in my Bible at Matthew 6:33 - my favorite scripture.
The Ladies stayed for a shared pot Luck meal - too much good cooking going on there! Then, using leftover (unopened ginger ale) and a few purchased items, we created a new punch which an elderly saint appropriately named Frustration Fruit Punch - deeelish! (Someone let me know since I'm the newbie when it's time to share recipes - y'all gotta have this one!)
Afterwards, I rested - it was my Sabbath time. (I do that quite frequently to remain more stable throughout the rest of the day.) And when I rose to check the blogs - my little friend was better as reported by her Mommy on her blog. GOD is good - ALL the time and in HIS time!
I've rattled on about me today, but it was such a special and very good day. I am happily exhausted and plan to turn in early - quite a feat for me! But not before I send a great BIG thank you to those who made my day special. I am grateful for friends who allow me to be 'whole' and cut me sooooo much slack as I physically stammer and stumble over words and wakways. Your patience is appreciated , and I love you all for the small kindnesses and gentle spirit you greet and encourage me with - Thank you Thank you Thank you! You are my Kellogg kind of people!Labels: Challenges, Pearls |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/17/2007 08:16:00 PM |
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| Sunday, April 15 |
| A Little Taste of Heaven?! |
A few moments before the breaking of bread to renew my covenant with my LORD ALMIGHTY, Sara quietly slid down the pew to sit next to me! Joy overwhelmed me and tears trickled down my cheeks...I recovered as quickly as possible with an enormous hug - not wanting to let go!!!
Who's Sara? She's a younger Christian lady from the Midwest (now), the wife of a now-retired captain USAF (he is young in the FAITH but zealous in works for our LORD,) the mother of two beautiful and wonderfully curious sons, and a captain herself in the USAF (her reason for 'showing up' for this morning's worship service). She's all that - but TO me, she's my EBENEZER (1 Samuel 7:11-13)
I first met Sara soon after her hubby was transferred south by our government, and she was able to move their two young sons (the baby just three months old) and household goods to his duty station here. Hubby sat in front of us his first worship as he was seeking a home church; how fortunate for me! (That still remains their "reserved seat" among the saints at our congregation.)
I, at the time, had just been 'put to pasture' due to this bloomin' PD, was feeling the anxieties of an empty nest, and truly was on the verge of depression. You see, I was "going to teach children until I was 108." After 26+ years in the trenches and at 49 years young, I couldn't continue to train and love children from 'the floor' of the classroom where I usually ended up every morning (for two years - I was just not letting go and letting GOD) after meds for Parkinson's took affect. (Also, "I never got sick," I used to retort. So, how could this be? Parkinson's Disease - not me!) Equally significant was the lack of noise and bustle in my home of my beautiful young adult children. I was empty, lonely - too quiet for me. I hadn't understood the meaning of Hab. 2:20. They didn't need me (my perception) as they were starting their own little families - three weddings, one divorce, and one more marriage in less than three and one-half years.
It was then that Sara, Hubby, and sons took up residence on the pew at the church building in front of me...how blessed I was! Their liveliness in and dedication to the LORD's work breathed freshness into me - renewed my soul for two years. Then, Hubby retired from military service to take up a new position/job in northern Midwest. He whisked my Sara, my stone of help, and family back to his home state. I was stronger emotionally at that time - still sorrowful that they left Dixie. I knew, however, that when called upon each in HIS Kingdom need to be about the LORD's business. They had to walk right through those doors of opportunity to be salt and light as Sara had been to me and our surrounding community.
Additionally, I had begun to donate time at my school as a volunteer at least once a week. I was feeling stronger physically although still experiencing 'drop attacks'. With adequate rest, I was able to 'get out' and begin a new hobby as a ceramist (ASAD). AND I had become Mimomma to two of the sweetest, most innocent granddaughters with the promise of another beautiful grandchild on the way. But, I always looked forward to our brief encounters with my 'church grandsons' and their parents - Barnabas (Hubby has become an encourager to my Hubby and me) and Ebenezer!
I have missed Sara and Hubby and boys; I love them like my own children! Sara was a stone of help sent to me by the CREATOR to carry through the camps of "Philistines" by her gentle, nurturing spirit. I realized (and anticipated) that some day soon she would return briefly (for school as a student at the base and then later to teach war college classes as an instructor) as she did today. I just lost track of time I guess. What a beautiful gift today - a little taste of heaven. Just when I needed my Ebenezer - there she was again!
How good I felt as joyful tears swelled in my eyes and dripped down my cheeks! Immediately I thought of one of my Mom's favorite hymns, "Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing." Oh, how wonderful one will feel throughout eternity to be able to raise individual stones of help (Ebenezers) in praise to our FATHER!
LORD, help me to become an Ebenezer for some one else today, tomorrow, and each day YOU give me on this earth. Give me time and opportunity to enjoy my Ebenezer while she's here for her classes. And please please, Dearest FATHER, protect her lovely family with love, mercy, grace, and peace while she's away from them!
Amen
COME THOU FOUNT OF EVERY BLESSING
by Robert Robinson(1735-1790)
1. Come Thou Fount of every blessing
Tune my heart to sing Thy grace;
Streams of mercy, never ceasing,
Call for songs of loudest praise
Teach me some melodious sonnet,
Sung by flaming tongues above.
Praise the mount! I'm fixed upon it,
Mount of God's unchanging love.
2. Here I raise my Ebenezer;
Hither by Thy help I'm come;
And I hope, by Thy good pleasure,
Safely to arrive at home.
Jesus sought me when a stranger,
Wandering from the fold of God;
He, to rescue me from danger,
Interposed His precious blood.
3. O to grace how great a debtor
Daily I'm constrained to be!
Let that grace now like a fetter,
Bind my wandering heart to Thee.
Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it,
Prone to leave the God I love;
Here's my heart, O take and seal it,
Seal it for Thy courts above. Labels: Challenges, Children, Church Family, Pearls |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/15/2007 04:10:00 PM |
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| Blogging Blessings |
Friday is my day - born on Friday, married on Friday,
all good things in my life with the BIG exception of my
birth as a newborn child of THE KING of kings have
happened on Fridays. So, I have committed my efforts
and energies to bringing to fellow bloggers a tidbit
of appreciation for all these blessings. A simple yet
meaningful verse, an e-cartoon that may have
brightened my day/week, a short story which
triggered a tear of joy (or sorrow), something that
I can share with you - on FRIDAYS! This commitment
keeps me looking, reading, ever examining the things
that are hidden in the file's of my heart once the
message has been opened and read .(Psalm 119:11,
Proverbs 4:23)
And so for this week I will leave these thoughts with you:
FLOWERS
by Leanne Coffola
People often send flowers to cheer someone up or after
a death in the family. My father proved there's an even
better use. A few years ago, he was diagnosed with a brain tumor. It
was a stressful, scary roller-coaster time for everyone in my
family. The tumor was the size of a golf ball and located close his
ear. The doctors said that the surgery would be very
complicated and was likely to cost my father the hearing in
one ear and paralyze half his face. But it was absolutely
necessary. So they wheeled him into the operating room and worked
on him for 12 and 1/2 hours. Thankfully, my dad came
through the operation okay, and the tumor was benign. Still,
he spent many weeks in the hospital, recovering from the
surgery and at one point meningitis. After that, came long
months of recovery.
Through it all, my mom never left his side. She took care of
him, loved him, made him comfortable, and sat by him his
entire recovery time. She gave all of herself to him. On the 1-year anniversary of my dad's surgery he
acknowledged how important she had been to him. He sent
my mom a beautiful arrangement and included a card with
this message, "I know this day last year was alot longer for
you than it was for me. Thank you for being there then,
now - and always." For once the roles reversed, and it wasn't the person
who was sick who got the flowers. It was the person
who loved unconditionally and with all her heart. As Dad showed, it's important to celebrate the people who
hold your hand and never let go. They are the true heroes!
mw ***(Isa 59:1) The LORD stretches out HIS hand to you and me.
Am I ready to grab hold for dear and eternal life?
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| posted by Marsha @ 4/14/2007 12:05:00 AM |
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| Thursday, April 12 |
| GOD Doesn't Exercise - Why Should I? |
That's right! Mark records our MASTER's words in his gospel chapter 10 and verses 41-43 that the rulers 'exercise' their authority over all. Jesus said to be great in the kingdom one must be a servant of all. Since HE IS the greatest on the Kingdom, I know HE doesn't 'exercise.' HE just BREATHES or SPEAKS (Genesis 2:7, Exodus 33:11, Psalm 62:11. Ezekiel 12:28. 2 Samuel 22:16, Job 4:9, 15:30, 33:4, 37:10, Psalms 18:15;) and things happen!
So why SHOULD I exercise? Two reasons I can think of right away but there are probably many, many more!
1. I am NOT THE I AM - (Genesis 9:6, Genesis 1:26, Romans 1:22-24 ) just a copy of THE REAL thing, and
2. the devil is out there just waiting to prey upon me! ( 1 Peter 5:8, Matthew 4 , Luke 4 , John 13:2, 1 Timothy 3:6, Hebrews 2:14, 1 John 3:7-9 , Jude 1:9, Revelation 2:10, Revelation 12:8-10 , Revelation 12:11-13 )
So my question of the day is have I done my spiritual exercises today so that I may be able to resist ( James 4:7) thus avoiding ETERNAL condemnation (Revelation 20:9-11 )? GOD will provide what I need (Ephesians 6 , 1 Thessalonians 5:7-9 ) if I just A.S.K. (Matthew 7:6-8 )!Labels: Pearls |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/12/2007 09:31:00 AM |
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| It's Snow Trouble Clean-up |
When my three were young, needed something to do, AND I needed "Alice" from The Brady Bunch to lend me a hand, I whipped up a gigantic bowl of Ivory Snow flakes. Yep, just beat those flakes with a little water making a marvelous 'snow' for my kiddos! They could get the stuff on anything from kitchen counters to tables to floors - even the covered back cement porch - and paint with actual paint brushes or finger paint to their hearts' content. Then all I had to do was wipe down with a wet towel or pre-moistened cloth and we were ALL good for the count of go! (Actually the back porch was the cleanest on the neighborhood block because we got to rinse down with the outdoor garden hose - such wonderful, inexpensive summertime fun for preschoolers!)Funny thing, though, happened when they turned six-, seven-, and eight-years-old...I drove them "home" for Thanksgiving that year. (I'm a Hoosier and these younguns are Deep South Bred and Born.) On the way to Grandma's and Pappy's it began to snow. We certainly dressed well for the occasion - it was 70s when we left home so short sleeved shirt and shorts with a lightweight jacket seemed appropriate - NOT!!! Cameron remarked as we got out of the car (due to some rather extensive and strong persuasion from all those backseat drivers), "Our snow in Allablama isn't cold like this snow - what's wrong with their snow, Mommy?"Have fun!!!
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| posted by Marsha @ 4/11/2007 06:25:00 AM |
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| Tuesday, April 10 |
| Ways for Christians to Relieve Stress |
My mother writes this to me this morning in an email. I think she has forwarded it from someone else, but I think these ways are all really thoughtful - especially for "Marthas" like me! She emails, "Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice."
1. Pray*** - be in this attitude of mind - always!
2. Go to bed on time*** - if you can't sleep, refer to number 1!
3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed,
4. Say No to projects that won't fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental or spiritual health.***
5. Delegate tasks to capable others.
6. Simplify and unclutter your life.
7. Less is more.. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many - pray for wisdom to distiguish between the two!)***
8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.
9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don't lump the hard things all together.
10. Take one day at a time - make a list of three things you hope to accomplish that day and DO them!***
11. Separate worries from concerns. If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you do and let go of the anxiety. If you can't do anything about a situation, F.I.D.O. - forget it and drive on!***
12. Live within your budget; use debit cards or cash in your envelope' for ordinary purchases.***
13 . Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc
14. L.U.M.P. (Lock Up your Mouth, Prissy) and K.I.S.S, (Keep It Simple, Silly). This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.***
15. Do something for the 'Kid in You' everyday.***
16. Carry a Bible with you to read while waiting in line - you need to beprepared for any who will (and they will) ask.***
17. Get enough rest during the day - 15 minutes 'power' rests scattered throughout your day can do a physical body, mental attitude, and spiritual temple good!***.
18. Eat right - just like whatever a man thinks, so does whatever a woman eats!***
19. Get organized so everything has its place.
20. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life - CDs of James Earl Jones reading THE WORD can be exhilarating and refreshing!***
21. Write down thoughts and inspirations - and put these on your mirror for morning and nightly reflections ***
22. Every day, find time to be alone - JESUS practiced solitude and meditation for a reason.***
23. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot.. HE'll assist in nipping small problems in the bud. Don't wait until it's time to go to bed to try and pray. It's never too early or late to talk to our FATHER! ***
24. Make friends with godly people - after all you want to be spend eternity with them, don't you?***
25. Carry a small notebook of favorite scriptures - read them often!***
26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good "Thank you Jesus".
27. Laugh. then ***
28. Laugh some more!
29. Take your work seriously - but not yourself in most instances.***
30. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can).
31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most).
32. Sit on your ego. Jesus says, "Esteem others more higly than yourself"!!!***
33. Talk less; listen more.34. Slow down and ACTUALLY take time to smell 'the roses' or whatever blooms in your garden.***
35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe - just of your home.***
36 . Every night before bed, think of one thing you're grateful for that you've never been grateful for before.
GOD HAS A WAY OF TURNING THINGS AROUND FOR YOU
"If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31)
(***I added my two cents worth to - Add to this list and repost on your blog for others to share!)Labels: Pearls |
| posted by Marsha @ 4/10/2007 08:03:00 PM |
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| Wednesday, April 4 |
| Yes, Momma...I'm a Martha! |
During my teenage years (ions ago so it seems), when I'd "do stuff" for others, my Momma would remark, "You're just a 'Martha'." It really did not matter whether I was making a gift (my favorite past time then and now), preparing a treat, watching "older' young couples' kids, etc., if it conflicted with what she thought I should be doing or if I continued excessively (I called it being 'passionate" or "being on a mission)", I was labeled Martha.
Many of the activities I participated in were not inherently wrong; Momma will tell you today that I was an easy child/teenager and nearly always obedient. (I was just scared straight to do anything wrong because that "all-seeing EYE" was watching me.) I was raised in a family that preached the Truth - Great Grandpa Josiah (his real name) was a Gospel preacher until his death at age 84 - I was eight when he was called home. He instilled his faith in my grandmother and my mother and all of us kids.
Over five decades, I have listened to many sermons on 'Mary's wise choice' and had come to the conclusion that my Momma, however right she may have been, meant the label not as a compliment but as an impetus to 'be at church' as often as the doors were opened for worship. You see, my Momma was and IS the most godly womand I know! Although Momma has never to my recollection hurt another intentionally with insults or disparaging remarks about their character flaws, her Martha label used to cut deep into my psyche. Her tone of voice - not hateful or angry - left no doubt that she wanted me to do something other than what I was caught up in doing or go some place she felt was more appropriate/convenient to achieve her goals. I would feel a lump in my throat and chest pain whenever Bible study was centered around Martha - even if the group I was studying with was not privy to my Momma's label of me about my 'missionary goals" for myself.
Until tonight...
In Luke 10, we learn first about Martha (and Mary's wise choice) in the following passage:
39And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Jesus' feet, and heard his word.
40But Martha was cumbered about much serving, and came to him, and said, Lord, dost thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve alone? bid her therefore that she help me.
41And Jesus answered and said unto her, Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: 42But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.
"It's true that Mary made a good choice as my SAVIOR has clearly stated it," I used to argue, "But it was Martha who first received Jesus into their Bethany home."
"And she tended to my Elder BROTHER's physical needs," I'd follow up with hoping to scout out a thread of encouragement for being so labeled as Martha. "Jesus has said that if we care for others' physical needs in the slightest of ways, we are HIS siblings. (Matthew 25:35-46)
Our focus tonight was John 11 - the beloved disciple's words about Jesus raising Lazarus the brother of Martha from death in order to glorify GOD. Lazarus falls gravely ill and who sends for Jesus - Martha. (verses 1-3: added anecdotal reference is made to Mary having washed Jesus' feet which seems to me to be an 'earthly' activity done for HIS comfort as well as to worship HIM). Verse five refers to Jesus' love for the Bethany citizens - who does John the beloved list first - Martha (coincidental as she may have been the oldest or she owned the home - I think not!) Who ran to greet Jesus when she heard that HE was nigh unto Bethany - Martha (she was just perpetuating her interest in worldly comforts and being hospitable, you'd better think again...verse 20...oh and what does John record that Mary is doing?) Who makes a statement of Jesus' powers to heal the sick - both Mary (verses 32-33) and Martha (verses 21-22). However it is Martha who further expounds on her belief in the resurrection (verse 24) and then openly and profoundly expresses her faith in our LORD with the following words,
"27She saith unto him, Yea, Lord: I believe that thou art the Christ, the Son of God, which should come into the world. "
(Can anyone find me a reference to Mary's public confession of Jesus' suthority and status?)
And finally, who is it that Jesus promises that she should see the glory of GOD immediately - Martha!!!
" 39Jesus said, Take ye away the stone. Martha, the sister of him that was dead, saith unto him, Lord, by this time he stinketh: for he hath been dead four days.
40Jesus saith unto her, Said I not unto thee, that, if thou wouldest believe, thou shouldest see the glory of God?"
If I am a Martha, I know that one day, I shall see the glory of GOD - and that will be enough for this feeble finite soul. I DO believe that Jesus Christ has come, is risen -resurrected from the gates of death, has ascended to GOD's right hand and mediates for me. HE IS THE SON OF GOD. Mary may have made a right choice but I believe Martha did too, and practiced good choices while proclaiming her SAVIOR to others as she physically ministered to their needs. And NO ONE can take that away from her. (This reference is specifically about Mary, but now it applies to Martha as well - Luke 10: 42 "But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.")
Yes, Momma, I am a Martha - and like yourself, I hope to attend in my small way to others until I see the glory of GOD coming from on high!
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